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Revenge is a Dish Best Served Righteous

Can revenge be anything more than an expression of self righteousness and self hatred?

To seek revenge on another human being is to say to others and ourselves consciously, “You were wrong in what you did, and I am right in what I am about to do, therefore whatever action I take against you is just.” This is our expression of Self Righteousness.

That is what revenge says closer to the surface. There is though, a much deeper message hidden within our desire for revenge.

To seek revenge on another human being is to say to ourselves subconsciously, “What you have done, has reminded me of what I have done, and I hate myself for having done that. I am not going to punish myself for what I have done, therefore I will punish you for what I have done, under the illusion that I am punishing you for what you have done.” This is our expression of Self Hatred.

Who was the last person you had thoughts of getting revenge on?

Could it be true that your desire to seek revenge is fueled by your Self Righteousness and Self Hatred?

What can you do with this new awareness?


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About Matt Marchant

Matt is a student of life and enjoys laughing, learning, and loving along with his wife and two year old son. He enjoys spending time in nature where he finds peace and rejuvenation, but most of all the simplicity that the outdoors provide. When he is not working he is playing, when he is playing he is working.


Holistic Health Practitioner (HHP) & Corrective Exercise Specialist (CES) Owner of Marchant Training Method, since 2001

Education & Certifications:

  • B.S. Degree in Kinesiology with a focus on Exercise Physiology from California State University at Fullerton in 2001
  • Holistic Lifestyle Coach (HLC) Level 3 from the C.H.E.K Institute
  • Exercise Coach from the C.H.E.K Institute
  • Circular Strength Training Coach (CST) from RMAX International
  • Circular Strength Training Kettlebell Specialist (CST-KS) Instructor from RMAX International
  • Holistic Coach from Journeys of Wisdom
  • PPS Success Practitioner from the C.H.E.K Institute

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